Some of the ways to keep the marriage work
Marriage involves the two he and she coming together to make a single tree. The single tree grows has many fruits and branches some may be sweet and some sour. Nowadays a marriage is easily broken despite of many counseling, giving space adjusting, living for the sake of children. The pillar of each marriage is love. The marriage should have a mixture of love, trust and understanding.
The love comes when you start knowing a person and respect him or her without boycotting. Each and every relation in the world has arguments, so never let anyone involve in arguments. Communication is the best way to understand so have a quality time being spent with your spouse daily. A request is oblige able but not a command, try to convey your need as a request not as a command. The power equation is formed when you give respect to each other and give respect to each others feeling.
In a couple if both are working try to share the household responsibilities. A proportion of income should be contributed for the family and not a single spouse keeps on spending without taking out the money. While on speech use more of we and less of you because couples are we and not me. The love must be a plant nurtured with trust and understanding and let the flower bloom.